It seems I have completely forgotten about this page, because usually I would have written a post back in December to let you know what I found out when it was still fresh. I came on here to write something about Dodo, but I need to have a whole post about my ex Scott first.
As I had mentioned im my last post, I had doubted Scott’s honesty – but that was nothing new – and some sort of my tummy had let me know something was up.
I went back to my (or rather our) old work place in December to go see some people. I actually asked for the shift plan, so to see that there were lots of people I liked and very few that I didn’t or were on his side. I knew that most people didn’t know my part of the story, so I was very ambivalent when I went there.
Unfortunately (or rather now fortunately) I bumped into his best friend, who had her last day there and I didn’t know she was there because she replaced someone else. We talked. I never had a problem with her, but never got warm either. However we talked about our breakup because she asked me what the reason was, because Scott never told her. So I told her my side of the story, which she didn’t say much about. However she mentioned that he was moving again. I was surprised, since we had set a minimum date of April this year. And she said that he was moving in with that new girl. Somehow I was surprised but then I was also not. I knew he wanted to get out of there, too many memories of us. We then talked about that new girl, since I knew she existed and simply wanted to know how long it had been going. So I said something along the lines of “well he seems to have moved on pretty fast, considering how ‘hurt’ he’d been by me”. To which his best friend only said “well, it wasn’t serious at first. They only fucked, but then it seemed to be more. I don’t know really, haven’t met her”. I asked when that happened, since he posted that pic by the end of September with her and we separated in August… so it wasn’t that long of a “fucking buddy” before it became serious. And she said “well when he went out a lot, they met and fucked and then… well it became more”. I didn’t say much at first, because I had added 1 + 1. He went out and didn’t come home in July already, when we were still together. And I had asked him one evening in particular where he’d been and he didn’t reply, when usually he would say he was with his friend. But he just didn’t answer this question, no matter how many times I asked. I guess I knew it even back then. So fast forward again, I said “oh, okay so that’s interesting.” And she realised what she’d done and was all like “no I don’t know how long they fucked beforehand, probably not too long blah blah”. But there had been too much evidence. My gut feeling, his behaviour, his missing answers, the picture of them, and then what his best friend said.
And from then on he was dead for me. I wasn’t even mad, to be honest. It didn’t surprise me at all, I just don’t understand how one could do such a thing, when he had been crying all year long, how his ex girlfriend had cheated on him whilst they were on a break and now he did the same thing. But whatever. I guess it helped to move on entirely and not think about him anymore.