So there’s quite a lot to update you on… I’m not sure yet if I will put this all in one post or what. But we’ll see whilst writing, right?
Alan and I settled to see each other on Saturday early afternoon. No set time, as he had to work till 6am and I just told him to let me know as soon as he was awake and I could drive off (it’s a 1.5hour ride). He texted me on 12.30pm, but then didn’t reply again when I told him to let me know when he was ready. By 1.30pm I was going batshit crazy, as I was so nervous and just drove off. I knew there was a chance he would not be awake until I arrived, but I didn’t think he would dump me. When I got to a motel close to his town and still no text from him, I just parked my car there and waited. I texted him again, letting him know I was there. No message.
A flight of panic arised – of him playing with me all along, but I didn’t truly believe so. I knew there must have been something else off. I texted a few friends of mine close to his town as well to spend some time with and then restarted my phone – because, you never know what is going wrong, right?! Just to receive his address and asking if I only had just gotten that text message (he told me later that he had sent it at 1.30pm already, and I received it at 3.45pm, wtf?). So I let him know that I would be there in 20 minutes and drove off.
Once I arrived – I didn’t even have a chance to really get nervous until I got out of the car – I waited there. I saw him on the other side of the sidewalk and he came up to me. We hugged and I was so fascinated by his eyes. I actually had to force myself to not
look stare at him. We then went to his flat. He quickly showed me around and he then asked me whether we should go do some shopping or if I’d like to eat out. I then said we could go and do the shopping and that’s what we did. It was fun, we talked like we had known each other for years – and it certainly felt that way as well. He was making fun of me, we were teasing and just having casual fun. Once we got all our groceries we got back to the car and I thought we would go back home. Instead he drove around and I really had no idea where we were. I did tell him he could easily kidnap me without even blindfolding me. I had no idea where we were, but I trusted him.
We ended up on a hill, where we were able to look over the sea of fog – it was plain beautiful. We then went and had a drink at a pub overlooking the scenery. We had such a good talk. Very serious, yet funny as well. I loved talking to him, getting to know more of him and his family. After about 2 hours or so we went back to the car. He then asked if I had my passport with me – which I had – so we quickly went over the border and got some petrol. I really enjoyed driving next to him (I usually never do!).
We then went back home.
More to come… 😉